What is the top issue men face when they want to approach a woman they find attractive? It is obviously, “what the heck do you say to her.” What you say on first approach will make or break your pickup. What you say must be a perfect balance of charm, flirtiness, intelligence, humor, and must open the door for additional conversation while making the woman comfortable in talking to you. Wow! No wonder most men have issues picking up women. So what is the best way to start a conversation with a girl? Pickup lines don’t work! A pickup line is certainly not the best way. Pickup lines don’t work. Every half wit knows that. Not only do they not work, they are a bright neon sign stamped on your forehead advertising your lack of creativity, intelligence, and shouts BORING to women. Ask any woman if they favor a good looking dull guy or an average looking entertaining guy and you will be surprised at the answer. Women look for VALUE in men. Not looks, or power, or chest/bicep measurements. For the purposes of approaching women, VALUE is anything that catches the girl’s interest. And what catches a woman’s interest is something that is unique, interesting, and something unusual. Her life is already filled with dull men and situations and if somebody like you comes and offers value to her otherwise dull life, you have value in her eyes. When she sees you have value, you are pretty much in and you are free to unleash your charm. So what is the best way to begin a conversation with a girl? The best way to initiate a conversation with a girl is with what the pickup artists call opinion openers. An opinion opener is when you ask a girl her opinion or advise on some problem. You are essentially asking the girl’s help. On a psychological bynote, feeling useful and needed is one of the fundamentals of human life. Not only do people like to be asked for their help and advise on something, they crave it and need it because it fills one of the crucial requirements of life. This is one of the secret psychological tricks pickup artists utilize to attract beautiful women. So what is an opinion opener. One of the best and most effective opinion openers is the “I’m doing research” opener. A couple examples are: Hi, I have a website called attractwomenreport and I’m writing a post called, “What attractive women find attractive in men.” What’s your take on this topic? Hi, can you help me out real quick? I’m doing my senior thesis on the attraction factors between men and women. What do you look for in men? Hi, I’m writing a post about what turns off women. Can you help me out ? Besides the “I’m doing research” opener, there are numerous different opinion openers you can utilize and you can and should make up your own as the situation dictates. Every woman and circumstance is different so you should use your good sense and creativity to invent different ways to ask for help for different situations. Opinion openers is an extremely powerful method that utilizes several psychological tricks to get women to open up and talk to you without it being an outright pickup. But obviously, you can have the best opening line on the planet but it means nothing without the right delivery. The opinion opener is but one part of the equation though … Keep in mind, communication is 55 % visual, 38 % aural, and only 7 % actual words. So if your delivery sucks, what you say doesn’t really matter. Nevertheless, if you combine effective delivery and confidence with the above “I’m doing research” opener, pretty girls will take numbers and wait in line to get a chance to talk to you.